终于到了最后冲刺阶段，盼星星盼月亮终于快乐快了。

 

到今天满36周，话说满37周就是足月宝宝出来也不算早产儿了。所以，呵呵，希望TA不要老赖在娘胎里，该出来时就出来吧。孕期算是顺利的，没啥反应能吃能睡，到现在为止虽然只重了11斤，肚子看上去还是挺大的哩，B超下来宝宝还有点偏大，这肉算是长对地儿了，等宝宝出来好好表扬表扬。宝宝TA爸倒是重了15斤了，那脸快赶上中秋的月亮了，直到5个月时一直在跟我飙谁的肚子长得快，后来不行了吧。以后要告诉宝宝，你爸在咱娘儿俩最需要营养的时候还跟我们抢食，斤两都长他身上去了。上传了几张孕照，8个月时候拍的，大家主要看肚子哈，脸嘛这时候没啥好看的。

 

宝宝啊，到现在都不知道你小名该叫啥，因为实在太多了。你娘第一次做B超，医生说位置有点低，所以就叫你"天天"了，希望你能天天向上，果然你一直往上长，真乖；你外婆叫你“吴金贝“，意为吴家和金家的宝贝，金贝金贝的人家还以为你是姓金的，咱好沾点便宜，可你娘不太喜欢这名儿，感觉像金巴之类的，金巴是啥你长大些娘会指给你看。呵呵，就暂时叫你Dayday吧。

 

Dayday在娘胎里算是个多动的主，一会儿乾坤大挪移，一会儿铁头功，好在你娘肚子比脸皮厚弹性又好，呆得爽吧你。每次做检查，Dayday的表现都很好，尤其是胎心监护很给你娘扎台面，你娘几乎总是第一个做好在众多孕阿姨羡慕的眼光中挺肚而出的。不过，你现在就动得这么厉害，娘倒担心起来，出来千万不要是多动症啊。

 

Dayday你要知道为了你，你爹娘尤其是你娘是付出最多的一个。你爹有贡献下了个种，可你娘是那个咯咯大咯咯大死撑着也要把你带到美好人间的人啊。为了保护你，你娘连计划了两个星期的蜜月都cancel了，当然这个要等你稍微大点时补的，一定要补的，不管你同意不同意。为了不把你养成巨大儿，你娘忍着忍着还是忍着平均半个月才吃一次甜品，而且还得忍到你断奶。你爸为了保护你，好长一段时间停止了他最爱做的运动以导致他的肚子现在如此“不堪入目”。你娘在半个月前就把待产包理好了时刻准备着冲进医院。淘宝上给你买东西，好几百的东西眼睛都不眨一下，哗哗哗的一两千就没了，要知道你娘自己买的话很少很少会有一笔超过300块的，这帐都给你记着了，也不是要你还，只是想让你明白爹娘对你的付出是不计成本的，以后你长大了赚钱了不要给个孝敬费就手抖。

 

先说这些吧，等你出来以后再向叔叔阿姨汇报进展吧。

 

 

很久很久没写过啥blog了，再不写怕要被淡出江湖了，遭人遗忘了。

 

在人生即将步入又一个新阶段之际，有必要向大家汇报一下了，否则一些远方的朋友铁定张大了嘴：“啊？太不够意思了吧“。

 

2007年西藏摔跤之后五个月时间在家休养，自学了一些法文看了一些书增长了一些心智，也有空找男朋友了：）可是“瘸子”怎么出去见人呀？感谢伟大的互联网感谢中国的match.com--世纪佳缘网(绝非广告），我认识了他--现在的LG，煲了两个星期电话，熬到七夕见了第一面，记得我还是一拐一拐地走向他的呢。还好没被嫌弃，那时候我可是支暴跌的股票，刚刚启稳回升，结果被颇有眼力的LG挑中了。从那之后，我这支绩优股就一直涨涨涨，LG狠赚了一笔：）拍拖了一年多咱就领证了（刚上传了一些婚照），想想真正match的一对何必一定要谈那么久呢？拍拖了7年8年还没结合的多半说明两个人之间是有问题的；但我并不赞成拍拖几个月就闪婚的，人是需要时间了解的，真情是需要碰到一些考验才能真正显露的。一晃又一年多过去了，更发现LG是个有责任心、事业心、孝心和爱心的好男人，而且还很大度很阳光，我们的价值观人生观都颇为相近。当然人无完人啦，小缺点总是有的，不过想想LG已经从看到油瓶子倒了也不扶和就一双袜子都会放到洗衣机里洗转变为能偶尔烧烧菜、做做家务的人，实属不易。两个人共同生活，就要“求大同、存小异”，“多鼓励、少批评”。LG在我们结婚一周年之际接受了洗礼，也成为了一名上帝的孩子，信仰的力量在我们的家庭中扩散，我们的灵在神里共同生长着。

 

工作方面嘛，骨折休养了五个月后就被猎头弄到Unilever去了，面试的时候还是拄着拐杖见我老板的呢。感谢Nicole感谢Sharon给了我机会加入联合利华的大家庭，一年半的工作虽说很忙，但让我接触了很多很有意思的项目，更结识了一群优秀的富有活力的同事。如今虽然暂时转变为“贤妻良母”，但我明白贤妻良母一不小心就会变成“闲妻凉母”，只有保持一颗追求梦想的心才能成为一个受家人尊重、对社会有所贡献的人。

 

马上就要进入一个新阶段了，在倒计时中我很期待，也有点紧张，快乐地做着最后的准备工作！ 

事隔一年后，终于在上周二把脚里的钉子取出来了。手术快结束时向开刀医生讨了两枚钉子以作留念，大家看了后都觉得这钉子跟普通的木工钉子无甚两样，为何竟要价1000多元一枚。

 

第二次经历也不如第一次那般刺激了，人生感悟也没有那么多了，只是觉得难得有一个月时间在家养伤该感到幸福才是。去年开刀有很多朋友来探望，前两个月几乎达到平均每两天迎接一个访客，那时候感觉自己有点像《相约星期二》里的老教授。这次开刀是意料中的事了，而且第二次总不及第一次来的新鲜，因此开刀一事除了同事没有告诉别的朋友，准备这次好了以后给大家一个惊喜。

 

不久的将来，小石头就要重出江湖了。也许不能再攀岩了，但我至少还可以游泳；也许最近一两年去不了险山险水了，但至少可以去惬意海岛。When God closes one door, He will open a window.

 http://oldlady.idv.tw/old/2006/love_2006/51_xizang/index.html

 

推荐给热爱生活、热爱旅游、热爱精神生活的朋友！不开音响你会后悔的。

 

 

 

 

对的爱

 

有些事总在事过境迁以后某个晚上

当个局外人去想才有答案才能够释怀

有些梦总在到手后却碰碎某天醒来

才明白自己和爱都需要准备都需要等待

只在对的时间适时的安排

爱过我的人啊原谅我当时对你还不明白

我爱的人啊谢谢你让我学会了付出爱

现在我等待对的人在对的时间来

对的我在对的机会全力爱爱爱

爱过我的人啊因为你让我对爱学会关怀

我爱的人啊错过你让我知道如何去爱

现在我等待对的人在对的时间来

对的我在对的机会全力爱ˉ爱ˉ爱

如果时间是一个未知舞台

我会因为你出现所以才精彩

爱过我的人啊因为你让我对爱学会关怀

我爱的人啊错过你让我知道如何去爱

现在我等待对的人在对的时间来

对的我在对的机会全力爱ˉ爱ˉ爱

  

有时候我们一生中需要一个人走完一段难走的路，这或许出于无奈，或许出于选择。但快乐的眼睛和平和的心灵能帮助我们更快更好地走完这段路。

 

命运是未知的，但积极的态度会给我们勇气和智慧来应对突发其来的事件。

 

相信上帝，仰赖上帝，他比谁都看得远，因为他是永恒。

 

想想我们以前度过的最快乐的时光是在什么时候吧，然后思考一下如何可以选择类似的环境、运用当时的心态来创造我们今后一生的快乐时光。有时候会想，如果我五六十岁就离开人世我会如何规划将来的人生，我会做更多有意义的事、选择做自己热爱但收入可能并不丰厚的事业、更加善待自己身边的人。我们不愿意想象自己活得不够长，这只是自欺欺人。

5月3日从西藏萨迦一垭口不慎摔下到现在已有一个多月了。最近才能上网以至于现在才向大家汇报我的情况。许多身边的朋友已经获悉此事，也有很多朋友来探望我，开刀前、开刀时、开刀后住院期间、回家疗养期间。。。非常感谢这些朋友的关心和爱心，陪伴我度过了人生到此肉体上最痛苦的时期。想特别谢谢我的旅友们，在出事后送我去当地医院诊断，及时把我送回上海，安排我在上海乃至全国最好的骨科医院开刀，还经常来探望我。

 

卧床期间，有太多的故事和感受想跟大家分享。原来人在遭受肉体上的痛苦时精神力量会起如此大的帮助。从每天睁开眼开始无论我愿不愿意都需要忍受这份痛苦，那我当然选择微笑着开心充实地度过每一天。

 

Thanks to God who gave me courage, strength and faith to go through the great sufferings!

 

God bless you all.

Hi my friends,

 

I will go on a trip to Tibet from tomorrow. It will be a looooong holiday. So I may not be able to see you for a while.

 

Sometimes we are lost and think traveling, a way of moving ourselves physically, will give us a clearer mind. Sometimes we are bored and believe a long exotic trip would bring us new inspirations. Sometimes we have no other choices but traveling, hoping an abrupt turn in our life journey would lead us to a suprisingly exciting new world......

 

And sometimes, my friend, I just need you to leave me a message so that I know I still have you in my audience!

 

Have a great May holiday (including those in other countries)!

 

Stone King

 

 

 

Sounds ironic but it's true--that I've never before picked any fruit or vegetables on farms. The strawberry picking event that we did last weekend was a milestone for this type of outdoor activity.

 

The first surprise for me was that strawberries in fact grow on the ground, and not on trees! So many cute strawberries were lying on the ground, smiling at you and hoping to be seen. I found that the strawberries which had struggled to stick out of leaves were bigger and redder. This instinct of striving for more air, water and sunshine helped them stand out.

 

We picked for more than an hour. My harvest was a basket of strawberries that weighed 3.5 kg. No one could resist the temptation of these cute sweet strawberries. So we ate some of them while we were picking.

 "Walking on the country road, listening to the singing of the shepherd boy, lalalala... we are singing with the flute..." 

Three and half day training plus one day sightseeing, this is the concept of our company winter training this year.

 

Well, let me breif you what I have done in the training.

 

1. I gave a presentation in junior group about an interesting topic, MS. Please figuire it out by yourself if you don't know any marketing research language.

 

2. I went to a bar called "Night Shanghai" in Xiamen. Huh, this is the whole idea of travelling from Shanghai to Xiamen! I don't remember exactly how many cups I drank, probably more than 20. Don't get me wrong. I mean 20 very small cups of cocktail and I was forced by a couple of very aggressive and persistent girls.

 

3. I couldn't walk in a straight line but found a taix to transport my colleagues and myself to a KTV. Ironically, we didn't find our Shanghai team but ran into the room packed with our Beijing staff. What a surprise! I guess all of us were a little bit drunk. Okay, since I was there, why didn't I sing a song? Very soon, I found myself holding the microphone and making some noise Not bad, at least I made myself safely back to the ferry and our hotel in Gu Lang Yu.

 

4. Next morning, I heard someone in the Beijing office took a wrong ferry and got on another island. More interestingly, a guy got really drunk and told another guy who put him to bed that "Honey, Trust me, I wouldn't get into any love affairs".

 

5. In the night after, I had the most fun party I have ever had. It's not just a party, it was a teamwork event as well. We spent the afternoon in making a food platter, most likely the most innovative one that you've ever seen and rehearsing our show incorprating one very interesting market research methodology. Our teamwork turned out to be a big success. We won the second prize, but with some personal sacrifice. I had a faked wedding ceremony with our team leader. You'll get a better sense once you see the pictures.

 

Enjoy the photoes I just updated. And enjoy the winter fun!!!

No OT this weekend.

 

What did I do?

 

I took one of my youngest colleagues to Star Gym and played bowling on Friday evening. Although it was the first time for her to touch a bowling ball, she did pretty well! In the beginning, all balls that she threw ran into the gutter, then she got her fist spare and eventually her first strike. Seeing one person growing, no matter at work or playing bowling makes me feel happy.

 

On Saturday, as usual, I had a lunch, a combination of buffet, BBQ and hot pot with my family. And then I went to the oil painting class and spent the rest of the afternoon there. Although I did Chinese painting for several years in elementary school, sketching is still the baby step that I need walk before I get into more serious stuff.

 

Overall, it was a relaxing and slow weekend. It's 9:00 pm now. How should I spend the rest of tonight? What about a little skeching and singing?

 

Wish all my friends, near or far, find wonders in their lives and enjoy every day freely with the people they love.

 

9/28 Flight from Bangkok to Siam Reap

 

 

Cambodia, a country which suffered so much in the Khmer Rouge period, is recovering slowly but remaining its painful memory of that horrible time in the late 17s. The cruelness was even worse than that during the Cultural Revolution in China. --- After reading “First They Killed My Father” by Oung Ung.

 

It was still rain season. So seeing sunrise or sunset in Angkor Wat is considered to be a luxury. I was lucky to see the sunrise, not on Mt. Bakeng but an ordinary rice paddy. It was still beautiful. The clouds were dyed with dynamically changing color of the brush of the sun, a great artist of the nature. It is also a magician, keeping changing the masks on his face within seconds, from bright red to dark red, to orange, to yellow, to a space of emptiness eventually.

 

I love Cambodian kids. You can hear “one dollar please, one dollar please” everywhere. And that sound came from kids who carried merchandise such as books or bracelets. Compared with them, I am a truly lucky girl. I didn’t have to wake up early in the morning, trying to sell my goods to tourists even when they shook their heads and waved their hands, sending out all kinds of signals of “No” and “Don’t bother me”. Kids in Cambodia take turns to go to school for only half a day every day. They spend the other half days working or just playing around. I saw naked little boys sitting on the handle of a bridge. Once a tuk-tuk approached them, they jumped into the river with all kinds of gestures. Maybe this was just a little fun for them to get foreign passengers wet. I think this way of catching attentions is also cute.

 

The favorite pictures I took in Cambodia are the little girl who was lying at a door in the temple and holding a blue plastic bag. I didn’t know what were in that bag. But I could tell her tiredness and sadness through her freezing eye sight and frowned eyebrows.

 

I like looking at things from different perspectives. And since childhood, I have been dreaming about taking a hot air balloon up to the sky. I realized this dream in Angkor Wat. I got a chance to see Angkor Wat not only at a foot step away but miles away from the sky.

 

The floating village is also a nice place to experience the local life. Sitting on the head of the boat and looking at the sun sinking into the water behind of the bushes, I felt I was like a child. This feeling got even stronger when I saw kids playing in the water. In one moment, I had an emotion to jump to the little tubs that they were sitting in. I wanted to float like a coconut.

 

The black and grey color of Angkor Wat, the jade green rice paddy and trees, as well as the smiling or sad faces of kids, all imprinted in my mind, telling me the stories of an old and new Cambodia.

  

 

 

September 25 Flight from Bangkok to Samui

 

²       Jungle Safari – made the most fun of it! Elephant riding, crocodile show, waterfall trekking, grandma & grandpa rocks, monkey show (coconut picking), lunch on the top of the mountain, secrete garden, big Buddha, etc. The rocky truck ride itself was just so much fun!

²       Tried two pieces of durian – it’s actually not that bad. At least it is called The King of Fruits

²       Als Resort – the room is right on the beach. Jet Ski…is cool.

²       Catamaran – very advanced and fast but threw up three times during two hours. A little tip that I learned: try to find a seat in the middle of the boat.

²       Koh Tao – Charm Chree, a beautiful and exclusive villa resort. Chaba Seafood Restaurant: lying on the triangular chair, listening to the waves gently crashing on the rocks, breathing the smell of the sea water, tasting the freshest fish and fruit drinks…. Such a romantic place. I felt asleep for half an hour in my chair as it was just too comfortable.

²       Nan Yuan – a beautiful small island with super white and soft sand. Did snorkeling for two hours. Love the feeling of freedom when swimming without a life vest. Saw fish with different color and shapes. Tried to catch them but failed every time I held my fist. Coral reefs are beautiful but I got three cuts on my feet by shells. Love snorkeling and feel I will love diving once I get started

²       Long-tailed boat – Sitting on the boat I felt I was living in a fairy tale, riding a small boat to a remote island while the fresh wind softly blew my long black hair and salty sea water splashing on my face. Looking at the big red ball making a fire in the blue sky, I wanted to shout: “I am coming, my love!”

²       Missed the flight – 15 minutes late caused 8 hour delay to Siem Reap. The worst was that I was still asking for a window seat, hoping to see the sunrise after I get on the airplane when we checked in. This really drove people crazy. But trust me, I really didn’t know the captain wouldn’t let us board in that moment.

 

P.S. Although the flights were delayed, we were still quite happy that day because of our positive perspectives and mutual understanding. Thank you!   

Please find pictures in photo albumns.

 

9/21 1:00 am arrived in Bangkok.

 

²      Thailand - the country of smiling

²      Warm-hearted Eki who helped me find my hotel, buy calling cards and shared with me his experience and knowledge (also working in marketing research and studied in the US)

²      Wat arun – Temple of the dawn

²      Shy taxi driver who taught me how to say “1”to “10”and rejected singing Thai Song for me while I sang Chinese songs for him!

²      The most popular logo – “Long lives the King”

²      Wild dogs every where – lying on the ground and enjoying lives just like Thai people

²      Chatukchat market – spent two hours walking around but still didn’t get to where the souvenirs are displayed

²      Beautiful Thai dancing (Monkey, etc. Don’t remember the others) – but in the cost of bending fingers since childhood

²      Grand Palace – the first time being blamed because of using flash on my camera. Now I know that flash can cause damage on paintings.

²      Suan Lum Night Bizarre – a nice place to hang out for a couple of beers and live music; also a great back up for Chatukchat market if there is no time for shopping

²      The most peaceful coup in the world – female soldiers were sent to replace males; the King ordered soldiers to keep smiling; kids and tourists took pictures with tanks and soldiers guarding the tanks

²      New airport – I experienced the new airport in Thailand on its first official day of operation. Felt honored that my backpack was the last one coming out on the convey belt.

²      Thai massage – the girl said that she really liked my skin color. I was in doubt since my skin got really dark in the end of the trip. Then she pointed out my belly, “I like that part.” Thank you, this is the whitest part after I got sunburn.

 

 

P.S. My mom said that I didn’t need to wear any underwear after I showed her my butt. Looking at the mirror, I told myself that at least my butt could tell how white I used to be.

From Shanghai to Bangkok, from Bangkok to Samui, from Samui to Siem Reap, from Siem Reap to Ho Chi Minh, then Dalat, Nha Trang, and now in Hanoi... What a trip!

 

Now I am writing my blog in my hotel near the Chinese Ambassy in Hanoi. Overall the trip is a good one, especially in Thailand and Cambodia. But it seems trouble never stop harassing me since I landed in Vietnam. Hope I will be able to return to Shanghai as planned.

 

I am still keeping looking for the 4-year old Vietnamese boy with a big forehead....But then I found many Vietnamese boys do have big foreheads but none of them looks like him, even a little bit.

 

Dear friends, be prepared for a bunch of pictures in next couple of weeks.  

 

    周六，和好友一起游泳、打保龄球、吃意大利餐、看电影。。。好久没这样腐败了。周日与柬越旅游会面、晚上又与家人在coconut paradise腐败了一下。

 

    9月底的旅行估计还会一样腐败，只是以我的性格，到时候一定会找一些自虐的事情做做。

 

    不过，要自虐还不容易？明天新的项目就要开始了，而且项目时间是被挤了再挤的海棉，准备通宵吧：（

 

    今天传些照片吧。。。身体进入战斗状态。。。